Obviously, no one wants to die with a load of sorrow from past memories and life-long regrets on his/her chest.
Everyone is born to be happy and expects the same from life but is often failed by the circumstances which manipulate the healthy lives into grief. 
The tendency of humans to build expectations and non-satisfactory milestones is what which pains them the most.
We have a very wrong habit of replacing goals with higher goals, so when we finally hit the lower level goal, we ain’t feel satisfied.
Instead starts regretting for not achieving that higher milestone we designed. This is never going to work ever.
What we keep on chasing is a few million dollars in the bank accounts, ravishing property and all sorts of luxuries rather than finding happiness in every small thing.
Your car, your bungalow or your currency is never going up with you, the things you’ll die with will be your happiness, and your satisfaction with life.
This conversion into a materialistic being makes us suffer the most.
This way it is never going to be good. You may be successful, you may be rich but it won’t matter to you unless your soul is satisfied.
You may be successful, you may be rich but it won’t matter to you unless your soul is satisfied. Share on XNot just these luxuries but past painful memories of either loved ones or the ones who ditched/left you in the middle also are responsible for this loss .
What we fail at is understanding the concept that those which were meant to be with us are still going by our side.
But no, the people which matters to us are the ones who left us when we wanted them the most. This is the thing which restrain us from moving on to conquer whatever we dreamt /planned about.
Also, most of us cannot come out of the sorrow just because we don’t have any proper guidance for all this.
What if I say that these things don’t even matter and that you can be happy at this very moment? Will you believe me?
No, not unless I list you those things which can help you move above all this. So, here are the tips that can help you live happily in the very right moment:
1. Focus on the Present
We don’t live happy because we don’t cherish present.
The most prior key to be happy is finding the worth of the very moment we are living in. Sticking to the present can be achieved by a simple practice everyday.
Don’t think about your past, work load or any deadlines you have to meet while with the family. Enjoy every moment thrown at you.
Sticking to the past cannot fetch you anything useful or satisfactory. Practice Yoga and Meditation every morning because it includes drawing up complete attention to the body functionalities and brain norms.
It can most possibly help you in shifting both physically and mentally to the present.
2. Be in a company of Optimistic( Hopeful) people
The human mindset is most influenced by the environment he/she grows in.
If this environment consists of negative people who discuss nothing but their problems and sorrow, are evil-minded and remains most angry and critical during situations, then it is most sure that you also develop the same mind-set.
Instead of doing so try avoiding such people.
In fact, be with the people full of hopes, who talks about their dreams and goals, helps you in your good and are charming.
These things do have a positive impact on the negative minds. So, create your own company of Optimistic people and stay away from negative minds.
3. Try helping out the needy ones
The cause of your frustration can be that you are only stuck up with yourself, your own success and your own happiness.
Then in this case, try helping out people in need. Helping such people not only gives us a natural satisfaction but also helps us unveiling the brighter side of the life.
This can motivate you along with building your confidence to carry out such tasks. So, try helping atleast one needy per day not with money everytime but there are some situations that demands you being present in physical.
Lend your time instead of money.
4. Be an Independent human
People surviving on others are a pity to everyone. People don’t take such humans seriously and never expects good for them.
If you want to be a successfully happy person then take your full responsibility. Be a master of your own.
Take charge of everything happening with you along with the mind-set that whatever is happening with you, only you are responsible for that.
You can never be happy being a burden on others because this way you can never be a man of your dreams. So be you and be your 100%.
5. Stop Stretching / Resisting
People often go out of their comfort zone to impress others but buy themselves hate, disappointment and disrespect for not meeting up the requirements on time.
Don’t be such a human. Stay in your comfort zone but be consistent with your hard work.
Make gradual progressions in your task doing capability rather than just over-burdening your minds with a lot of work.
Moreover don’t try to backhold the things not within your control. Stop worrying about opinions on you and keep doing what you always do.
Stop worrying about opinions on you and keep doing what you always do. Share on XListen to your heart and start accepting the things for how they are no matter right or wrong. Resisting things inculcate negativity and it’s harmful for happiness.
6. Stay fulfilled
Feel satisfied and happy with everything you have at present rather than crying over what you don’t have.
Accept a habit of paying gratitude for everything that is with you and is about to be with you.
Don’t ask yourself the reasons for why it is with you and why not. Simply, be what you are with a hope of doing better and better in the future.
Try controlling your desires because desires would never end. Everytime you desire and dream something different but that doesn’t mean that you can actually get everything in your life.
So stay satisfied with who you are.
Conclusion
Try these things in your life and I am sure that you can get yourself every possible happiness you were searching for.
These do have changed a lot of lives and here stands a chance for you too to change your’s this time.
